Be the Change you so much Seek

Has it ever occurred to you that the change that you so much seek could and should first start with you? This simply means that for you to feel and experience the change you so much hanker after, you need to do something. There’s nothing for nothing.

In essence it boils down to creating the right atmosphere to attract that very “precious” change.

But the sad thing is that only few people are ready to accept the change to start with them. They believe that change will only come from the outside.

This kind of attitude is not one that is carried by people who change (and affect) their surroundings and situations. People who are “changers” know that for their situations and circumstances to change, they have to “change” first.

They have to change:
· How they look at things i.e. their perceptions have to change.
· How much attention they are willing to give to their situation.
· Whom they blame when they fail or when things do no go as they had planned. They have to be ready to “shoulder the blame” and see how best to solve the “problem”. They also try to work out means and ways of preventing the situation from recurring.
· How they receive everything that comes their way. They ask themselves, “What do I learn from this situation? How can I work it out to my advantage?”
· How they see people. They have to realize that people are the greatest resource ever “invented”.
· How they treat people. They have to realize that you cannot “bully” people into action and expect things to run smoothly. People love to be respected for who they are. People also perform excellently when they are assured that they are trusted.

These are just some few pointers that I have learnt in my daily experiences and association with my colleagues and friends. I hope that you find them eye openers. I believe that you people out there have so much more to add to this list. Please feel free to share your “eye openers” with us.

P.S. Here are some quotes on CHANGE that I came across recently :

· Progress is impossible without change; and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything. – George Bernard Shaw

· Things do not change; we change. – Thoreau


· You cannot change people but you can channel them your way. – Hal Stabbins

· Everything changes continually. What is history indeed but a record of change? And if there had been no changes in the past, there would have been little of history to write. –M. Gandhi

· Progress is a nice word. But change is its motivator and change has its enemies. – Robert F. Kennedy

· The art of progress is to preserve order amid change and to preserve change amid order. – Alfred North Whitehead

· Change yourself if you wish to change the world. – The Mother

· Change is not made without inconvenience, even from worse to better. – Richard Hooker

Pre-Marital Sex - Is it acceptable or not?

Here we will discuss about an interesting and important topic too Pre-Marital Sex. You people first tell this, from the below options which one you choose,

1. Love with Sex,
2. Love without Sex,
3. Only Sex, No Love,
4. No Love, No Sex.

Now a days many youngsters are started to give a new definition to Love. If Love is present there without Sex means, then no one will accept that kind of Love. Do you feel bad about having Sex with your partner? If true Love is present there means, then why should we bother about the Sex and all.

You people share about it here....

Come let us fight against AIDS

Even though many precautionary things have been taken, so many propagandas have been going on, many news related information are coming through, no one is going to care about AIDS. It is going to affect the other person, then why should I care about it? Like this only many are thinking here in this Society. Many are telling that we all should join our hands together to protect our World from AIDS and so on. But how many are ready to do it, that is what the question here? My question is how many of you will accept the AIDS affected people as your friends and keep them with you under your shadows. Each and every one of you touch your heart and tell the answer. Why many people are not taking the advice in to their mind? They all know that if we have unsecured Sex, then it will lead to AIDS, But no one is co-operating and all likes to do that only, then what' s the use? What you all think about this?

Need Peace!!!!

When God comes to this World and sees every thing means, definitely he will feel bad bad about the situation that present here. Many are fighting with each others in name of wars, no co-operation among the countries, no one is ready to join the hands to improve and so on. If we do like this means then any thing can easily beat us, regardless of power and so on. There are so many problems that exist here, one of the main thing is Terrorism. But taking war on other countries is not the only solution for these kind of problems. Why should we fight with each other? What we don't have here? If we all co-operate with each other means , then no one can beat us.

Cheers

Upper Caste/Lower Caste - So what?

We already saw one post here in this blog about the racism. Here we will see a similar post related to that, Upper Caste/Lower Caste problems that exist in this society, These kind of problems are well known in countries like India, Pakistan and so on. Here people will start to discriminate each other based on the financial status, educational status etc., so this will result in discriminating them from the Society. God made us in this World, then why should we separate us based on these stupid things. If we feel like this means then we all should feel shame as a human being because of our activities. If we all have Sixth sense means, then what' s the reason for these kind of things to happen? Do you experienced it in your Society circle? What you think about this?

Do you bother about Society?

Many of us are having these questions in our mind. Whether we should live for the sake of us or for the society? Should I bother about the society? And so on many questions are there yet to get answer from us. While trying to get the answers for these kind of questions, many of us will get into Dilemma. The reason is if we start to think about the society means, then it is not possible to get the answer. My question is we are living for us and not for the sake of others, then why should we bother about others and this Society. This Society will always keep on pointing out some thing on us, regardless of whether it is really a mistake or not? Now you people share the thing here, will you bother about Society?

Gender Bias - Is it a Big Deal?

This is one of the big problem that we all face in most of the places, especially in our respective homes. No one is trying to get the real point inside it and they are doing the things that they like irrespective of country and so on.

A child's destiny can be determined by as simple a circumstance as whether his or her father contributed an X or Y chromosome. Pink or blue clothes. Guns or dolls. The provider and the homemaker. Female infanticide. The patriarchal system. The purdah system. The premium on virginity. Dashing bachelors and aging spinsters. What are they all about? They all revolve around the issue of gender bias. The fact is that people are treated differently depending on their gender.

Gender bias is so deeply ingrained in the system that the discrimination begins from the time a couple plans a baby. Today, science has advanced so far that it is possible to separate male and female sperm so as to predetermine the sex of a child. In some parts of the world the birth of a baby boy warrants a celebration whereas a baby girl may not be extended the same warm welcome. Despite the fact that India has crossed the billion mark in population, there will still be families with five daughters and the mother trying desperately to give birth to a son.

When we will get the solution for this problem?

Why we should differentiate the Male and Female?

How much you like Music?

Each and every one in this world likes Music, no one can go against this quote. From rich people to poor people, no exceptional cases for this. Music is common to every one and it is the one which unites every one in this World. It is of various kinds like Rock, Jazz, and so on. Many will have certain kinds of taste inside them and it varies from country to country. Each and every one is having their own taste of Music in their culture itself. This is true Culture is related to Music and vice versa. Music is having the power of curing some diseases and it has the power to change any thing. You people share the thing about Music that you have in your mind.

Love the Music, Love the Life

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Ragging - How far it mentally affects the students?

Many of you are not aware of the term "Ragging". Let us what it is actually means,

"'Ragging' means the doing of any act which causes, or is likely to cause any physical, psychological or physiological harm of apprehension or shame or embarrassment to a student, and includes– (a) teasing or abusing of playing Practical joke on, or causing hurt to any student. or (b) asking any student to do any act, or perform any thing, which he/she would not, in the ordinary course, be willing to do or perform."

These kind of things are happening in many Colleges, Educational institutions and so on. It happens mostly in India, Sri Lanka, Pakistan and in many other countries. Even though many bad results are coming through this kind of incident, no one seems to be taking this issue as an serious one and keep on doing these things in their respective Colleges and so on. But it is not possible to any one to feel the pain of others. Many students are getting affected because of this problem and the presence of many Govt. rules and regulations seems to be idle. Why no one realizing the real thing inside it?

Please stop Racism

All are equal in this world, then why should we fight with each other? What's the need for it? Many are fighting with each other, but one of the stupid reason is fighting with others because of color variation and so on related to it. This is one of the main problem that exist in each and every part of the world. Why should we fight because of this simple reason? God made us to born in this beautiful world and he only decides the color, face and so on. This is not the mistake of others, the why should we take this as an big issue and ti fight through it. If we all sit and think means then everything will become foolish and childish. So let us join our hands together and try to do some thing for this world, instead of fighting with each other.

Cheers friends...

Global Warming

Who am I to care about this World? Like this only many people are thinking here and no one worrying about the climatic changes that are keep on changing here. No one is ready to join their hands together to bring our world out from the Global warming problem. Due to the Air pollution like forest firing, Vehicle pollution, Industries pollution and so on, the Global Warming is keep on increasing here. One of the main causes is Deforestation and because of this so many problems are caused to this world. The lack of Rainfall is also one of the things which causes so many problems to us. What we are going to do for this? We all are having the responsibility to save our world. But who shows the interest, the answer is No. Why many people are not caring about this and keep on doing their personal work. The only solution is all of us should try to make some thing good for this world, otherwise our future will be????

Child Labour

People who have enough resources to bring their children up in life are spending money and doing any thing they they like to them. Whether those children make use of it or not that doesn't matter. This one part, what you people think about the other part. Yes the only solution for that family is sending their children to work. In order to run their family those parents are sending their children to the work. Even though many Govt. plans are existing here, no one is following it and no one is ready to accept that. Many companies are recruiting the children because of less salary and more work. Why those families are not thinking about the future of their children? They are very keen on spending the present day successfully by having enough amount of food, but they are caring about the future, right? Who knows the answer? Time only can answer it.....

Cyber Crimes?

The day when Internet is evolved, we all are having this problem in each and every part of this world. Ya the thing that we are going to discuss here is Cyber Crime. When one positive thing is present, at the same place one negative thing is also will be there. Likewise in Internet we all are having so many advantages, but as equal to it we all are having so many dis-advantages. One of the main dis-advantage is Cyber Crime. Now a days it is so popular because of the presence of so many hackers in this web world. Many knows how to do some malfunctions in Web world and they are doing it for their own purposes, in order to earn more from it. Even though many sources are available to save us from these people, they are doing it in a very advanced fashion. No one can able to get rid off them and to restrict them from doing. Who knows the solution for this?

Why you need this needle?

Do any one of you have idea about the thing that we are going to discuss here? Try to guess it by seeing the above photo. Ya you people are absolutely right, Drug is the thing that we are going to discuss here. Many youngsters got affected because of this habit especially college and school students. Even though they all are aware of the side effects through this habit, no one worry about it. For them they need that 1 or 2 minute satisfaction and enjoyment, that is what all they need. Why should we destroy this wonderful life by getting into these kind of habits? So many things are there to enjoy the life, but why many people prefer these kind of stuffs. Do you have any idea?

Forced one!!!!

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Carelessness leads to.....?

For many of the problems that exist in this world, the main reason is Carelessness. If Govt. put some rule means then no one will follow it and they will start to do the things that they like and not worrying about others. People like this don't concentrate in their own work and don't listen to other words. For example here I will tell you one example, here Government put one rule that "Don't use Cell phones while driving". But how many of them are obeying this rule. Recently I saw one accident which occurred due to Cell phone. Why no one obeying these kind of things? What's the reason for this? The person who driven the vehicle has died due to his carelessness..... Now you people got the meaning of my title?

What you people think about carelessness?

What's the solution for poverty

Even though many rich are living in this world, even though many trusts are there to help the poor people, even though many Government plans are there to help the poor people in needy conditions. The one thing that is remaining strongly in each and every part of the world. It is none other than Poverty. Each and every one is one is getting affected through this problem and many lost their lives. No one seems to be taking any steps to help the people who are suffering through poverty. So many countries are affected due to this, especially Africa, India and so on. What' s the permanent solution for this? Can any one point out here? It's not possible to find the solution for this, at the same time it is too complex. But any way we all should join our hands together to help our brothers and sisters, right? Let us do some thing rather than speaking........

My Evasive Nyama Choma

News that at least four abattoirs had been closed down in Nairobi sometime this week hit me hard. In fact it was a slap across my broad face. Nyama choma (roasted meat) and my mouth are sworn blood brothers. Yeah, and literally so.

So, news that some principal slaughter houses in Nairobi had been closed down really jolted me. I started asking myself how I would get by the week with the thought that come weekend there might not be enough meat to serve the city thus I would end up not tasting my delicacy.

My employer might have noticed my disenchantment with life itself for he called me the other day asking what was “eating” me. He also pointed out that my work output was lackluster (to use his word). He said this was unlike me.

If only he knew what was bugging me, he might have sent me packing. Thank God he couldn’t read the thoughts that were doing their rounds in my head!

The authorities say that these abattoirs are in a sorry state sanitation-wise. They are very dirty and pose health risks to the “nyama choma” patrons (like yours truly).

But, seriously speaking, I thought fire can kill all manner of germs, worms and other such health risks that can “append their poison” in the meat I love so much. Roasted meat goes through fire, doesn’t it?

Can someone please, puliiiiz, do something about this state of affairs. I, like so many other Nairobians, need to get back to work with all the energy I can and could muster. This is energy that I can only get from my favourite delicacy “Nyam Chom”.

You slaughter house guys, clean up your act and make sure there is enough Nyama Choma to drown the city the moment I step out of the house this weekend. Somebody reading this?

“Love”…with an Eye on the Prize!

I don’t refute the claim that there is true love (and I know many people who are beneficiaries of this bug). But I know there are people who take advantage of people’s feelings in the pretext of “loving” them.

There are some women (and men) who would give their eye teeth to get hooked to a rich white man or woman with a long-term aim of settling abroad. This is very rife in Africa (particularly in Kenya).

The allure of the West has turned into an anthem to every Tom, Dick and Harry who wants to bid farewell to penury and (beggary). Many young people have the notion that if they go to the UK or the USA, their lives will change drastically (for the better!)

Most of them have found out that there is no easy way of hastening their steps to the $ and the £, than waltzing their way into the lives of male and female (white) tourists in the hope that they will eventually be whisked to the lands that they have always desired to travel to (and hopefully settle in).

Getting a Visa to countries such as the UK and the USA can prove hard because of the exhaustive (and equally exhausting!) procedures that are involved. But this is no hurdle to these gold digging young men who could traverse the most expansive ocean to get to the lands (and the money & opportunities) they aspire.

They tend to believe that falling in love with their white friends and getting married to them is a sure fire way of circumventing this obstacle. {But is it a solution, really?}

You’d care to see what some of the young men get married to: some very old, (moneyed, yes!), scrawny hags that would pass for anyone’s grandmother or better still, great grandmother!

I call such kind of love: “Love… with an Eye on the Prize!”